Why do we get hurt?

We all have been there when it just feels pointless to get out of bed or do anything, It feels useless to carry on with life.

Sometimes it’s just a bad day or sometimes it’s because we’re hurt. This feeling of helplessness is overbearing and extremely difficult to overcome. It makes you feel broken, vulnerable, and weak.

But we are not weak because we are feeling that physical pain that comes with heartbreak. We are hurting because we let our walls down and open the door to our hearts to love. And that makes us brave. It takes a lot of courage to trust anyone apart from your own self. It’s daring to open up your heart and let people in your life and your heart.

So, if you’re hurt and can’t stop crying, take a look back and just know that you’ve been through worse and look at you now, you turned out just fine. This is not permanent. You loved them with all your heart and did everything in your power to make them stay, but they still left. You can only fall in love with people, you can’t make them love you, and sooner or later, you need to come in terms with this sad reality of life.

Take your time, cry your eyes out, do everything in your power to get them back. Just because they can’t love you that doesn’t mean that they are incapable of love. They are just incapable of loving you. Meanwhile, always remember that their incapability of loving you doesn’t make you less lovable. You just need to learn to love yourself first and then eventually someone will come along who is as interested in loving you as you are.

Till then, you do you.